I Used To….
I’m working on taking this phrase out of my vocabulary. Mainly because it’s usually followed by some better version of myself. I used to be under 120 pounds, I used to be able to run 13 miles at once, I used to make $X amount of money. You see where I’m going with this? I could also tell you that I used to weigh 120 pounds because I was going through a divorce and controlling my weight was the way I kept my sanity or I used to be unhappy with my job when I made $X amount of money, but then I’m just making excuses for who I am now.
The way I see it, comparing myself to who I used to be is just like comparing myself to some model I see on a magazine cover. I can’t compare myself to her, she’s not the same person as I am, just like my former me is really not the same person that I am. I have a completely different life than that girl. I hardly even know her.
From now on it’s all about I am or I will. I am eating really well and feel good about my decisions. I am loved by an amazing husband. I am grateful for the clients I have and am working hard to help them with their book promotions. I will add a few minutes to my run each week. I will focus on expanding my business by continuing to learn new skills and meeting new people.
Is there a word or phrase that you have cut out of your vocabulary? (Keep it clean!) What have you replaced them with?
Love this.
How about “I’m too old to ______”
Mom
April 20, 2010
Hey Rachel, thanks for the comment today! I have been trying to think of something fun to do today for our upcoming year anniversary so maybe we can try the oar house and stay the night in rockwall. Fun!
Courtney
April 30, 2010
I’ve heard the hotel at the harbor (They Hyatt??) is really nice. Not sure how much $$, though. Happy Anniversary! I’m sure you guys will have fun whatever you decide to do.
Rachel Randolph
April 30, 2010